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nope.
/forever alone. XD

This is what I've gotten.

I plan on getting flowers too, but those will be bought later.

Excuse my blatant necroposting, but I am a growing adult, so I might have to collide with this topic one day.

Is it really alright if I don't bother with romantic relationships before my mid-20s? I mean, I still have to secure myself before going out to find a girlfriend and eventually tie the knot, but would I find myself in trouble if I don't have experience beforehand?

im 23 & been single all my life..... well im still living (yes i know its sad but can help it as im ugly, poor & nice guy)

not really..I mean I just made a relationship 5 months ago..the problem with relationship is to find someone that can care or you and of course make you care for her..I mean me and my babe doesn't hv any issue with financial and stuff (hell she often pay for my foods everytime we date) but one thing that you need from having a relationship is that she can make you better..not just for having fun and stuff I mean..we're gonna be an adult right..I'm 20 btw

@N643 stick on being nice bro!! it'll help (a lot)

funny how the 23 year old single all his life guy, knows the most about woman & relationships

ppl just say i duno what im saying but at the end im mostly right

DUDE!! I FEEL YOU BRO!! that's exactly what happened to me before I'm in a relationship!! I mean I'm like a cupid among my friends yet I don't hv a girl and cant hv a relationship -___-"

no i know how girls think & i know how a guy think as well so its odd

Oakyyyyyyyyyyyy..........

Hi guys! I'm 17, looks quite okay, nothing wrong, but just can't seem to attract girls, always have to be me to take initiative. Suggest me things to do!

^ Meh, girls want a lot of things, plus you never know what they're thinking at the moment.

^ This. You gotta be with them often to be able to at least know what they're thinking, and that ain't even half the battle.

^ and ^^

Well I already did, what's the next step?

I'm speaking from a friend's experience here, just befriend them and eventually you'll pick up their habits, and so will they pick up on yours. Once you two get close enough then maybe you can start asking her out.

That feeling when you give relationship advice yet you have no experience in it.

It's like a

Simply be yourself. Do what you usually do. Get yourself into something like playing sports or playing musical instruments.

But eh, it's better for me to wait for the right girl rather than being happy-go-lucky with whoever you think is good, because some girls are pretty plastic and not up to good standards... time will tell who your eternal partner is.

Yes I have no experience but yet every advice o give works, also solved many hard cases

Yes I have no experience as I have never had a gf but I can tell u this if my advice fails & u are rejected nexus of that one advice that I gave u, then I give u your money back (yes some ppl paid me cuz they think Im gold)

In my opinion, you might have a girlfriend that's good. Most importantly her family background and stuff.

Unless you want problematic girls, you may feel excited about it but it will bring you downturn.

Just telling my experience. If that is the case, do not be unlucky. You might experienced hardships but just be it that way.

Try to grow better. Never stay negative because of your EX. Good luck...

A bit late, but my 2 and a half year relationship ended sometime in Oct. of this year. It was LDR (Long Distance Relationship) She couldn't take the distance anymore.

Its fine, a month and half later, find out she slept with another guy.

- RemieGino14 -

That feeling when you give relationship advice yet you have no experience in it because you have already been rejected twice.




[ Post merged on Dec 17 2012, 06:44 PM ]

Ouch. I guess that's one of the cons of having an LDR.

This post has been edited by Antares on Dec 17 2012, 06:44 PM

That's not a good girl either. Tempt to sleep with another guy so you know the con's of it afterall.

I have my first and worse EX but not to say going so far for one useless guy. I feel you man although I have a better girlfriend or partner in life. I hope karma brings the same to those pricks who don't learn to appreciate.

Take it easy. I know that hurt can be very deep. I cried so much for a useless girl before. So what do you think? Same thing...Your not alone!

After what happened last year, I couldn't get over myfirst crush moved on against and without me.

She admitted liking me, but i jumped the boat and she crushed my love for her. ANd criticised and sad bad things at me, about me. Hating me for who I am. and it made me go hospital, her boyfriend and her didnt give a single shit and everyone knew i was in hospital due to overflow of emotions.

In the end, i tried to get closure for my side, to make it fair, they didnt give any, because one, they moved on, two. unfair, they said lifes' unfair and i knew it didnt meant it had to make them unfair too, but instead they had to be unfair. They defended their actions and said its not their fault. Right.... when my friend tried to get them to say at least a light note of goodbye or apology they didnt say anything.

f**ken good of a (the bf) friend in primary and a (crush) b*tch in high school.

I hope their kids suffer my fate, so they know the extremes what they did to me, like karma did.

The many times i randomly encounter her, she tries to run or something.
Or etc. last time she smiled at me (like an evil stare good happy smile directly saying, OH IM LIVING THE LIFE HAHHAHA)

And i just ignored her and walked on.

Dear god, she turned into a horrible person. ANd samewise for that bf, a once close friend.

I already prayed for their souls to have mercy because they didnt give me any, and u know what? I stopped carring.

I still cry and hremember her, but in the end, i wonder how she felt ditching me as a friend etc. etc.

But in the end, theres nothing can be done. Its how life is.
I f**ked up, i lost, i get punished, i lose.

But i'm made myself stronger, i lost 20kg this year, happier than before despite being let down.

But one thing stuck to me.

Women.
always had a go at me in life.
Whether im sad, bad mood, or confident.

They put u down. Even strangers giggle at u.

Whats so wrong? Im being who i am, if u have a problem or find me funny, ur just insecure as yourself, faggot.

But if only i could be that strong enough to stand up and verbal abuse those women who laugh at me or check me out at shops and stuff.

If only. (I had therapy about this)

I noe i have issues with women, because its all my life, mom, other ppl and women. girls etc. etc. and i know im getting mysogynistic and i dont wanna end up a woman beater. but i wont respect the ones at my age or younger. i only respect the elderly and close friends, the rest can get fkced.

This post has been edited by grimsolace on Dec 18 2012, 12:41 AM

Direct and simple. And it doesn't take 'no' for answer.

Hmm i think im too nice of guy to take advantage of a helpless female.. it doesnt sit right...

Hai guys

Earlier on my way home from college I saw this girl who I only know by appearance and she was on her way home too. (We study at this same Institute.) It was raining so I pulled out my umbrella and walked to the train station.

As I was walking I keep seeing her and have noticed that she was walking in the rain, getting wet, after a bit of hesitation I then ran up to her and, well, offered to cover her. To which she accepted.

So we talked a bit about why she's walking in the rain, introduced ourselves to each other after that, then proceeded to walking where we were supposed to go, while still having a conversation.

After that we reached the area where we parted ways. She went left, taking a jeepney home. I went right, heading for the station.


And now here I am posting this for you guys to see because something is gnawing me tonight and I feel so frustrated I have no idea why. I'm thinking maybe this is what's bothering me so... Yeah. Letting it out here